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Thomas J. Maher, Jr.
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“Tom was a good friend and neighbor, and will be missed . Sincere condolences to Joan and family. So sorry for your loss. ”
1 of 13 | Posted by: Jane Martin - Scarsdale, NY

“So sorry for your loss. ”
2 of 13 | Posted by: Colleen Cameron - Arenella - NY

“Maureen, Joan and the Maher Family,I just want to let you know how sorry I am to hear about your dad's passing. I didn't know him well but enjoyed...Read More »
3 of 13 | Posted by: debbie torto - melrose, MA

“To Joan & Maher Family. We are devastated to learn today of Tom's passing this week. As neighbors at the Coolidge Apartments, I was his personal...Read More »
4 of 13 | Posted by: Barbara Loveridge - Melrose, MA

“Just viewed all the beautiful pictures. They tell a story of a wonderful man and his family. You can see all the smiles, shared moments of happy...Read More »
5 of 13 | Posted by: Patricia Schindlar - Stony Brook, NY

“Joan so sorry for your loss! Tom was a great man! ”
6 of 13 | Posted by: Ernie Dupuis - Wakefield, MA

“So Sorry to hear of Tom's passing, I know he will be greatly missed.My heartfelt condolences to The Maher family and everyone close to him.He was an...Read More »
7 of 13 | Posted by: Bill Schindlar - E. Northport, NY

“I am so saddened to hear the news of Mr. Maher. He was a man of pride, strong values, a smile on his face and a joke to tell! I have many fond...Read More »
8 of 13 | Posted by: Christine Cerini - Commack

“So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I enjoyed looking at all the photos it shows all the love and...Read More »
9 of 13 | Posted by: Dan Schindlar - E. Northport, NY

“My sincerest condolences to Mrs. Maher, Eileen, Maureen and the entire Maher family. I was so saddened to hear of your Dad's passing. Only last...Read More »
10 of 13 | Posted by: Curt Schindlar - Nesconset, NY

“Uncle Tommy, May you Rest In Peace. Aunt Joan, Eileen, Bucky, Maureen, Steve & family, I loved looking at all of the wonderful pictures here. So many...Read More »
11 of 13 | Posted by: Heather Boedeker - Derwood, MD

“Love, your ONLY! xx ”
12 of 13 | Posted by: Ann Brothers - Pequannock, NJ

“The Gately Family and Staff wish to express our sincere sympathy to you. It is our hope that we may be able to make a difficult time more bearable....Read More »
13 of 13 | Posted by: John W. Gately, John H. Gately & Fred Sprague

Thomas J. Maher, Jr., of Melrose, passed away at the Winchester Hospital on April 22, 2018 at the age of 84. He was surrounded by his loving family. Tom was born in Manhattan, NY and raised in the Bronx. He attended Machine & Metal Trades HS in NY City and completed his education in the U.S. Navy at the United States Armed Forces Institute and proudly served his country during the Korean War. Tom resided most of his life in NY until moving to Melrose 9 years ago. He worked as a Repairman for the New York Telephone Company for 37 years before his retirement in 1991. In his youth, Tom played semi-pro soccer for the Yonkers Scots Soccer Clubs, for many years he was a senior usher for his church in Westbury, Long Island, NY and enjoyed spending summers in Dennisport on Cape Cod. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus in Deer Park, NY, the USS Albany Assoc. and also the U.S. Navy Cruisers Association. Tom loved watching football, soccer, baseball, hockey and his favorite teams were the Yankees, Rangers and the NY Football Giants. He was a big Melrose Red Raiders fan, enjoying many hours at Melrose sporting events cheering on his grandsons. His family was by far the most important part of his life. His perfect day would be a cookout in the yard with his wife, children, 7 grandchildren and great grandson. Tom was the beloved husband of Joan T. (O'Neill) Maher for 63 years. Loving father of Eileen M. Spies & her husband James of NY and Maureen T. Maher & her husband Steve of Melrose. Cherished grandfather of Kathleen and her husband Justin, Megan and her fiance Andrew, Daniel, Brendan, Ryan, Liam and Sean. Great grandfather of ... READ MORE →